Don't wait to the water runs dry....

I saw this Memes and found it to be so profound. My Social Media postings and now my Blog are aimed at educating, entertaining and informing the public. I post about many things and use my own life experiences at times. I have experienced alot and I hope you  take with you the knowledge that we all have been through similar experiences.

I have had a number of relationships. I am closer to forty than thirty. I love hard. I am alot to deal with. I spent more time than I should have waiting for someone to change. I loved him. I felt that the love I had for him outweighed the need for me to be happy. He wasn't even trying either. He didn't have to. I was so naive. He didn't deserve me.

Time and time again, no MATTER what I found myself right back in his arms. Lengthy absences, new beginnings with others, no matter what Kim would always be there. Then I met a monster. Someone who tried to kill my spirit. After that dark time was over I told myself I would never again be with anyone just to be able to say I love someone.  

There are degrees of commitment. As we age, financial obligations is one of the reasons why many people stay together. Two incomes are better than one. That isn't a reason to stay TOGETHER! In researching for my book I have learned that unequivocally children are happier when you are happy. It's a scientific fact. 

I have never been one of those women to preach about a perfect formula because I don't have one. I know staying with someone just to be able to take Usies is bullshit. I want you to take your worst fear. Now imagine if you REALLY experienced it. Would that person be there for you?? Fidelity is free. If you go years and never sleep with anyone else then why can't your partner do the same? 

In conclusion, I learned many things from Mr. Wrong. One is the same way you get someone is the same way you lose them. Two I refuse to ride for someone who will not walk with me. Last but not least you can give a man next to forever to get it together yet fall in love with the next at "Hello".