Monday, March 31, 2014

Gone Too Soon

NANA

POP POP AND EB

AUNT DARLENE, COURTNEY AND I AT AUNT COLETTE'S BIRTHDAY PARTY

UNCLE SAM

DIDDY, LYNN AND REECIE

KAZIA AND COURTNEY

JIM'S ANGELS

NANAS BEST FRIEND AUNT FRANCES
No matter how many years you have with someone it hurts like no other hurt to say Goodbye. Over the course of the my life I have lost many people who meant something to me. First and foremost My Nana, Mrs. Betty Filmore who I loved with a love that I probably won't feel ever again until I hold my own grandchild. Or until she holds me again at the place beside our King she has prepared for me. I look just like my Father and he looked just like his Mother.

 My grandmother in the last years of her life retreated to where I now believe God sends those who have witnessed too much. I couldn't take seeing her and not being able to talk to her and have her tell me all the reassurances that only she can give. I made my peace with her and no matter how many books, how many houses or how many accolades I have I would give anything to play Hot Peas and Butter and Red Light Green Light 1,2,3 with my cousins. To hear my grandfather say "Stay off the cellar door". To watch everyone pony up for Mystics lol. To get a straw for my Aunt Sharon and her "medicine". To see my Uncles Norman and Carlton say goodbye to us at the car and after Uncle Carlton passed away no matter what Uncle Norman still did it until he went on to glory a year after my Dad. Uncle Gregory and Uncle Pouper walking up the walk. Nana always made sure you got home safe.



REECIE AND I EASTER AT NANA AND POP POPS HOUSE

FAMILY REUNION IN DELAWARE

EBONI(PREGNANT WITH DANIEL), AUNT MONICA, DORINDA AND KAZIA

DORINDA AND DANEARYS

DIDDY AND I AT NANAS HOMEGOING

AUNTIE S AND MY FAVORITE COUSIN YOUIE

NANA AND AUNT ROSALIE
THE KIDS IN VIRGINIA AT THE FAMILY REUNION


COURT, MANDA AND CARLTON GREGORY


EBONI, JEANINE AND DORINDA AT NANAS

FRED, RJ, UNCLE SAM, TJ JEANINE,AUNT JETAUN, YOUIE AND SOMEONE ELSE LOL

NANA AND EBADEB


AUNTS JETAUN, MONICA, DARLENE AND UNCLE JAMESAND UNCLE BORN

MY LATE FATHER RONALDS BROTHER AND SISTERS

REECIE AND CAPRICE


DAVID AND SHACAR
DORINDA AND I

AUNT DARLENE AND I AT MY BIRTHDAY PARTY

DAVID, SHACAR AND KAZIA TELLING KAYLA BE QUIET

PRINCESSES

MY MOMMY, MY AUNTIE AND RIDE OR DIE AND I IN VIRGINIA

MY AUNTIE J AND MY COUSIN BAYLEN


DAVID AND TRAVIS

I DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE GENTLE PART BUT BRAVE YES BETTY

2 comments:

  1. I share your journey and cherish those gone on. I hope to measure up to my family as they have measured up to me.

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  2. You are doing great Omi Day! I am so happy for you and your family.

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